If you don’t address your childhood traumas, your romantic relationships will.⠀
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They say most people choose a partner who represents their parents.⠀
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My husband is a perfect combination of my Mom and my Dad.⠀
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In the beginning, I was like this is great— I feel like I already know this person.⠀
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Then it got hard because he triggered every single unresolved childhood wound I had— over and over again.⠀
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I had a choice here. I could keep pushing my feelings down and ignoring them until our relationship crumbled OR I could acknowledge them, do the work and have the most loving, fun, supportive relationship I’ve ever had.⠀
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I chose to do the work.⠀
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My mother wounds started healing immediately. I found patience and compassion for her that I never had before.⠀
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I now understand my Dad’s role as a protector so much more and saw the meaning behind why he said the things he said and did the things he did.⠀
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Healing these wounds was painful. There was nothing pleasant about resurrecting the past. But I answered the call.⠀
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I chose to rip myself open. ⠀
I chose to put my ego aside and really understand my past and how I contributed to every messy part.⠀
I chose to forgive.⠀
I chose to heal.⠀
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Because the rewards are rich.⠀
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Living in love and joy and peace is a gift not enough people are taking advantage of.⠀
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It’s evident in our current climate here in the USA. Division, scarcity and competition are the most prevalent emotions I come across every single day.⠀
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Love, joy and peace are a conscious choice and they’re available to everyone at any time.⠀
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Are you ready to answer the call?⠀
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If your heart is saying yes, the Frequency of Love is for you….💕⠀
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XX,⠀
Lauren